Hi. I'm having a tough time trying to figure out when to say something when my feelings have been hurt, and trying to determine if I should just let it go. Lately, it's been happening a few times. Our daughter-in-law has made comments that are kind of cutting, although I'm certain she has no idea she's said anything wrong. Then, another individual, who is naturally very reactionary, spoke to me in a way that I felt was NOT OK! (Just really rude tone of voice, a little on the beligerent side, etc).
So, is there some sort of guideline that anyone knows of as to when to confront the person, or when to just "suck it up" and let it go??