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    Asked May 9, 2013, 03:30 PM 8 Answers
    I'm nearly 21 and my breast don't seem to have grown at all and its really getting me down. I'm currently a 34b. Its effecting my sex life and everything.

    Can someone help?

    Last edited by talaniman; May 9, 2013 at 06:46 PM. Reason: Edited text and title.
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    Wondergirl Posts: 37,723, Reputation: 5423
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    May 9, 2013, 03:53 PM
    A bunch of my college dormmates and I decided 34B is the perfect size!
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    kirsty999 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    May 9, 2013, 04:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    A bunch of my college dormmates and I decided 34B is the perfect size!

    I hate it
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    ScottGem Posts: 64,970, Reputation: 6056
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    May 9, 2013, 04:40 PM

    34B is a very nice size. If its affecting your sex life it is on you, not your partners. I would suggest counseling to deal with yourself esteem issues.
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    odinn7 Posts: 7,691, Reputation: 1547
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    May 9, 2013, 04:43 PM
    You may have a problem with 34b but I can tell you, as a guy, I see nothing wrong with that at all.
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    Wondergirl Posts: 37,723, Reputation: 5423
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    May 9, 2013, 04:50 PM
    At 34B, your breasts won't sag when you get older, your back won't hurt from heavy breasts, you will look good in stripes that go sideways (and in any other prints and patterns), you will easily find clothes that fit, and you will be able to wear scoopnecks or turtlenecks or crewnecks and always look good. Bigger-breasted women will envy you.

    Like Scott said, you really need to deal with esteem issues if perfect breasts disappoint you.
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    talaniman Posts: 53,812, Reputation: 10851

    May 9, 2013, 06:52 PM
    I am with the others that you have a serious self image and self esteem problems and if its affecting your sex life and your partner doesn't complain then you have a real problem you should get help with.

    Sooner rather than later.
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    icDavey Posts: 2, Reputation: 3
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    May 9, 2013, 08:11 PM
    Honey, please don't do this to yourself. Our society creates so much anxiety for completely normal people and it serves no one but the people who want to sell you things to make you "better". Your 34B breasts will perfectly serve their natural function (feeding a baby) when the time comes and there isn't a man in the world (worth having) who would fail to fall in love with you over the difference between you as a B, C or D cup. This is a completely bogus concern being fed to you by interests outside of your own. Where did you pick up this large-breast expectation... porn films? Even about half of them feature small-breasted women. A lot of men prefer them. That is all I can say to try to encourage you. Whatever you do in life, don't let vanity win out over good sense. Don't worry... be happy!
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    keeks143 Posts: 149, Reputation: 3
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    Aug 15, 2013, 10:54 AM
    I can understand what you're saying about the guy thing, but I don't think guys care as much as we think! When you feel down about them, think about the purpose of breasts and you'll realise that so long as they're doing what they were placed there for you are perfectly normal :)x

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