tonight I found out that my teenage daughter who is 14 is having sex with her 16 yr boyfriend which she calls her friend. When I found out I did what I said I would I got very angry and hurt. She had a blank expression on her face and it just mad me so angry I said mean things to her and I feel betrayed we talked about this as much as possible before it happened we would go out to eat or I would talk to her on car rides to school I told her how important it was for her to finish high school first she didn't listen