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Hello everyone,

He joined 3 weeks back.I've been there for over 9 months now.In the first week his team leader introduced us & though I found him cute,I was'nt going to do anything cos of...

Update folks - he's just sent me a friendship request on Facebook - hmmm - very odd! I haven't accepted it but will tomorrow. He can see how well am doing. Any communication from now will have to be...

Also what if he is indeed playing mind games - I don't want to give him the pleasure of seeing me react (I already have reacted though)

Nothing to lose really. But am afraid that he might think am guilt tripping him - or acting as the victim. Also if he hasn't calmed down yet - my words might fall on deaf ears?

Just wondering if it's the right time to ask since he's obviously angry at something - or me - god knows for what reason though! And my email will be basically telling him that he's hurt me with his...

Thanks homegirl. I had let him go - not responded for 7 days after we broke up - he emailed me. Then recently I was the one who went silent after his coldness about the cyclist conversation. Why keep...

Thanks homegirl. I had let him go - not responded for 7 days after we broke up - he emailed me. Then recently I was the one who went silent after his coldness about the cyclist conversation. Why keep...

He dumped me a month back after 4 months of dating.He’d asked for time & space to sort his head out.After a week of no contact he emailed.We exchanged a few emails.The next night I rang him–spoke max...

Thanks once more! He's replied to my fake profile - 2 emails - one on Friday & the other on Sunday. I am thinking of testing him & seeing if he's up for a hook up. If he says yes then I'll let him...

Thanks Homegirl50! He contacted me the day after - 'Seeya tomorrow'. I didn't respond to that.. then later at night he texted 'I'll come over'... and bit later 'I'll come over'. I didn't reply. Next...

He wants to take a break – is it all over?
Hello all,

I really like him – he is 34 and I am 33. We met online just before xmas and hit it off straightaway. We met in person less than a month...

Hello all,

I really like him – he is 34 and I am 33. We met online just before xmas and hit it off straightaway. We met in person less than a month back and the chemistry and connection and...

Thanks Jake! I guess your wishes have paid off. As much as the other crisis in my life just took a turn for the better y'day and I can relax. Yes there's a bit of way to go still but at least I am...

Thanks for your words... and I agree with you on all of this. It takes a couple of seconds to text back... to let me know either that he doesn't want us to see each other or that he needs time to...

Desperately need insight! We've been together for 4 months out of which I was overseas for 2 months. I just got back a couple of weeks back. He kept in touch, waited and initiated the catch up once I...

Yes Talaniman that's what I was thinking too - that he might be bluffing about the gastro but doing that to hide nothing more than the fact that he was waiting for me to settle down. Well I have...

I know... and I will be telling him that when I see him in person. I am not making any plans... so he has to do it himself. I told my friend 'maybe his fingers got gastro too' lol! I will surely tell...

He just texted me and told me he's been suffering from gastro the entire time. So I texted him back and told him to get well soon - to have heaps of water and rest up. To that he responded and asked...

Oh yes he definitely knows! He's asked me quite a few times in fact - I showed him our itinerary as well. He's offered to introduce me and my friend to a childhood friend in Dublin to show us around....

Thanks! Yes will surely keep you'll updated! I have received very good advise from an earlier post when he had not contacted me for a while and I was wondering only to be prompted by a couple of...

I can't go to his place - I don't know yet where he lives. He had invited me a couple of times but I wasn't able to go :( I also don't drive so it's a bit tough..! I guess I will just have to watch...

BK201 - You know you are the first one who has actually given me any ray of hope besides my friends of course. I have posted in quite a few forums and everyone has told me I've blown it. I can assure...

I’ve been dating this guy for over a month now. I fell for him on our first date – he’s told me he likes me too. We’ve met each others friends. I had a home party Sat evening & he was invited. When I...

Wondergirl - thanks :) You are right! I do have a very very full social life - something that happened as a result of my last breakup. This entire weekend I've been busy with friends and the next few...

Talaniman - No, no not the same guy lol! I am still recovering from my ex but like this new boy far far more than my ex actually and I know this isn't a rebound. However since I was so badly burnt.....

He's agreed to dinner - not tonight but either tomorrow or day after... I have dinner plans with my friends either tomorrow or day after. So have told him I'll confirm a bit later. Thank you so much...

Haha... ok I have invited him to dinner tonight :) Hope he doesn't think am pitying him... I do have way too much food at home actually haha! I was thinking it would be wasted - this will be a good...

Hahahaha! That's what I was thinking too - I know if I was in his position I would have liked a friend to feed me since I would be so highly strung haha!

He just texted me the following:
'Oh!...

Yes for sure... that's what I said to him... that if he needs to download am here. He texted me back and said 'what do you mean' and I said 'just offering support that's all'. Now am not going to do...

Altenweg & Wondergirl – I just received his response and he told me he has just quit his job. He couldn’t take it anymore. I knew he wasn’t happy with the new job and the moment he had started it is...

Thanks Altenweg! I have asked him how his training's going. Once he responds I will ask him if he wants to meet up. He has never turned down my invitations and has always initiated and asked me out....

Thanks Wondergirl.

I guess he needs to decide about my loyalty himself. I know I have never done this before. It's a first for me and I told him that.

If you were in my position would you do as...

Thanks both of you! I am an Aries... and an artist... so a bit too intense I guess. It's just that he made me very very happy.

I agree I gave in too quick and I told him that... he said... 'you...

Hi there,

I am a bit confused so please pardon if my words are a bit jumbled up and I ramble on. I’ve been seeing this guy for the past month. I really like him and he seems to like me too. We...

Yup will do :) I will be meeting him this Friday when he'll accompany me to my friend's social gathering. After that what happens I will see... but since I've taken the pill I don't think I'll be in...

Thanks Redhed35! Yes I will surely be careful - I have to admit I wasn't thinking straight! This happened in the morning though and there was no alcohol involved. Also when we were at the chemist...

I need a bit of neutral perspective here – and maybe an expert opinion too from this forum. I have been here before and received very good insights :)

Here we go. I had advertised for a flatmate a...

See but the problem's that his friend told me that when he is left alone he makes all the wrong decisions. Which I have seen him doing in the past. So I am scared that they more space I give him the...

He hasn't told me that he doesn't want to be with me…not in those words. He also did tell me that he loved me…doesn't that count for anything…only the fact that he isn't 'in love' with me is all that...

Then why is did he get so angry when he found out that my flatmate tried to hit on me.. If he only loves me as a friend.. what's the issue then? My flatmate played me his message and read out his...

My boyfriend will probably split up with me. He had asked till today for ‘space to think’. When we spoke y’day it unintentionally (swear on god it wasn’t planned) slipped out that my flatmate had hit...

He has just texted. No terms of endearment... just my name and told me if he wires the money through then can I mail his stuff out.

When I asked whether he has thought at all he says he will let...

But I so love him and have gotten so used to having him around. I really want to give him the chance to mend his ways. I never wanted to end things this way. I know everyone says he's not good for...

My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost a year. He chased me, professed his love to me and moved cities to be with me. Even though I didn't love him at that time I slowly fell in love...

Oh dear! Thanks for the heads up talaniman...

Thanks Jake & thanks talaniman :)

Your words make me feel much more positive and optimistic. He came home at 5 in the morning today having spent the entire time drinking with a friend. He probably...

Thanks for that Jake... I do realise I need to ease up on my expectations. I am trying but it does get to me from time to time.

He knows I am in quite a bit of pain and he still carries on as...

And yes I have taken your advise about counselling to heart and will surely resort to it if nothing else works :)

Hello again Enigma1999,

Stress... it is then! I must say I am under stress myself. My new job is promising but there are people I don't like and that stresses me. My best friend's been playing up...