I have a 20 year old daughter. I feel she is manipulating my life. She seems moody and arguementative at home, but when I see her with her friends, she seems really happy. A totally different person. Everything seems to be our fault, we are still held hostage for events in the past (whether they happened or not). I have tried taking to her, but she seems to twist my words and convey a different meaning to her friends. I am tired of her screaming fits, and unjustified accusations, I am tired of being called all sorts of names, and on the other hand being buttered up to pay for all her wants and needs. Don't get me wrong, I love her to death, but I need advice on how to handle her. Anyone have any ideas?