My 34 year old daughter hates me I know I was hard on her sometimes when she was little but I gave her a lot of love and attention my husband is an alcoholic so it was hard to raise 5 kids alone he was also verbally abuse They are all good self-supporting kids. Two are lcsw ane two are lawyers and one is in business. They can be very mean to me. But my oldest is rude ungrateful and a user She has 2 children I help watch they are the only reason I don't break ties with her I feel bad but she would never address anything I briught up to her. My other kids are beginning to see the bad dynamics they learned from their father but not her