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    Feb 24, 2013, 09:24 AM
    Abusive son
    My son who is nearly 40, won't pay his bills he spends all his money on drink and drugs. He will loose his flat if the bills arnt paid. I feel I should talk to him and not leave him to struggle. But when ever I weaken he asks me for money so I feel I shouldn't visit. What should I do? Im 64
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    Feb 24, 2013, 09:34 AM
    The only way to stop his behavior is to stop enabling him. He's old enough to sink or swim.

    EDIT: You asked this question earlier this month. Did you follow the advice? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/parent...on-732004.html

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