I have two son; 31 and 36, they are very abusive toward me, now is the verbal and emotional abuse that comes out more often.

Without going on with too many explanations, I just want to know what to do, they blame me for all their misfortunes ( you can deduct that I am a single mother) They are on their own, making a good live for them self, except for the sick way on which we relate.

Yesterday my eldest son told me that he hates me, that he is ashame to have a mother like myself that if I am going to commit suicide he would come to my funeral... I must say, it hurts too much, I have told him that I don''t want to ever talk to them, but that as well tears my heart away, anybody out there with any comment?