My 20 year old son graduated from high school in 2005. He attended a 4 year school for 1 semester and dropped out. He went to a county college for 1 semester and didn't attend. He won't work or go to school. He sleeps all day, I mean all day, he is waking up at 4 or 5pm in the evening. He is up or out all night. I know he smokes pot and drinks but doesn't do any other drugs.

He has had 4 or 5 jobs in 2 years quitting all of them and keeping them no more than a few months.

He doesn't talk to me and his father has moved an hour away and doesn't seem to care much. He feels his parenting is over once they turn 18 years old.

My question is, "Should I tell him to find another place to live if he doesn't get a job or go to school"? I am not helping him at all by allowing this kid to continue doing what he's doing. He doesn't talk to me and does what he wants. His father says he doesn't have room for him.

Please advise