About 3 weeks ago, I had a couple stay over and watch our 2 youngest children for a little while during the night. I used to have the girl over at my old house to sit and I informed her of our old house being haunted and how excited I was to be in a new house where I didn't feel like there was negative energy, that I could walk around the house and not be scared. Well, her boyfriend is talking to me the morning after and he begins to tell me that he's seen a spirit in the house and that it's a good spirit-- and its not a ghost. He described that he heard footsteps upstairs while everyone was sound asleep, knocking on the wall.. he described the figure that he saw. I quickly turned to a Facebook pic of my friend who had passed back in October. He said that was who he saw. She had put her hand on his shoulder while he was walking down the steps. I explained to him that she had been with her boyfriend, gotten married, tried to have a baby, her husband got locked up, and she died. He thinks that she is attached because of her dream she didn't fulfill of having a child. In fact, I showed him one of my sons pics from the hospital and there is an unexplained white spot in one of them. A week passed and they returned to babysit again. Immediately after him entering the house he felt energy. We sat around a candle with rosary and he communicated to her. She said that she wasn't there to hurt me or my family, she was simply there to protect us. I explained that I was frightened by the fact. And she said she would try her hardest not to scare me. Through the night, he heard footsteps- talking- and knocking. The next night -- my husband and I experienced the knocking, the sound of someone walking the stairs, and whistling. We asked her to stop and there was nothing else. I then had a dream. That she was there talking to me. She said that she wasn't there to hurt me or us, that she was only there to watch over my family. That's what friends do. There were too many specific vivid details and per my friend with the 6th sense.. it may have been a sighting. My whole body was frozen and I couldn't move while she was in the room speaking.

I am seriously afraid. I shouldn't be. I know that she would never hurt me or my family. I am just not sure how to come to terms with a spirit whom makes their presence known. I know that she has always loved to be the center of attention. How do I make myself be OK with this? I am OK when someone is in the house with me such as my husband or a friend. But when I am alone my mind wanders and I know it isn't healthy. Every little thing scares me. Im stressed. Sleep is minimum. And I am terrified to be in my own house. What can I do without upsetting her to where she would turn on us? How do I put my mind at ease?

I it helps try just talking to her like you would when she was alive
I know it's hard to come to terms with the fact that she is a spirit but it's still her and she's still your friend! At least you have good spirits to watch over you and your family, where as me I don't!. I have strays that come to me! But yeah just try talking to her like you would any other time that she was alive..
Let me know how that goes for you. :)

I will try. Thank you. :)

Let us know when that doesn't work ;)

I am unsure of the words.. I wrote a letter... So, we have an EMF reader and last Thursday night it was off the charts in the hallway upstairs. Perhaps I should sit at the top of the stairs and read it? But how does one say "hey, can you please watch from a distance. Go to the light." in a not so rude way. I basically told her to wait for me in heaven. <3