Hi I just moved into an apartment and I keep hearing things in my kitchen I hear foot steps and I my lights flick on and off on occasion I also heard my door open and lock the second night in my place my fiancé also hears foot steps and feels weird energy we were having intercourse and the television turned channels then completely turned off I'm scared out of my mind I never believe in ghost but I when I went in the kitchen the sound stopped and it was very cold in the kitchen I sat in the kitchen for about 15 minutes to see if I would hear it and the same sound I heard started coming from the living room somebody help me I'm scared what can I do how do I know if its an evil spirit that will harm my family and I or could it be a good spirit