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Goddard · Dec 17, 2007, 05:40 PM

What do you do when women aren't interested in you? Do you just suck it up and move on and give up all hope pretty much? Seems like the logical thing to do, at least for me.

Fr_Chuck · Dec 17, 2007, 05:56 PM

Let me see when I was in my 40's I found myself single again. I don't post my photo here anylonger but if you follow my links you will know that I am no MR ATLAS by any means. But guess what, seldom did I have a weekend that I did not have a date, you know why, I would ask about every single girl I would meet out, And I got to know a lot of nice ladies, and some not so nice ones. I dated girls that worked in motorcycle shops, girls that worked at the local gas mart, girls from the local fast food. Some of the girls decided I was not their type, and I decided many were not my type. That is how it goes,

So how many ladies are you asking out a week to find someone to date?
2, 4, 10, finding someone and dating is a matter or odds.

oneguyinohio · Dec 17, 2007, 06:08 PM

Well, first look at things from a woman's perspective... what would you see?

I don't know you so please don't take anything personnally. Do they see a clean, well bathed, well dressed guy? Do they see a guy able to support himself and make pleasant conversation? Do they see a guy that is neat, organized etc??

Does anything the guy is involved with seem appealing to them?

It might be that there are some things about you that they do not like, or at least doesn't spark an interest in them...

I'm not saying to change if you don't want to, that's your call... You have to do whatever it is for yourself, but sometimes those things don't seem as important so guys don't focus on them when they are looking... You'll have to decide if you think anything like that is worth the effort for you...

Maybe you've got so much going on that even though you would like to have that partner in your life, you might be pulled in so many directions that you don't have the time or energy to devote to the cause...

You could be a wonderful person, but go unnoticed or overlooked if you aren't around the people looking, and offering something of what they are looking for...

Those are just a few of the possibilities... if you want to make the efforts in those areas, there is still no guarantee...