Originally Posted by jojo114
If life were simple, it wouldn't be fun. Take out the bad, and the good doesn't seem good anymore.
why do people need to like do what they want even if it would hurt someone
Some people don't think about others. Some things that a person does that hurts you might keep them or someone else from being hurt. Most of the time, it's an accident.
why do people say things they don't really mean but still say them
In the heat of the moment, people will say the most effective thing they can think of, whether it's true or not, whether they believe it or not.
or if they do mean them why do they need to say it
Because lying to protect somebody's feelings isn't always a good idea. Honesty is usually the best policy. If I have a problem with somebody, I'll let them know about it... to do anything else is to imply that what you don't like is OK.
.is life only about money and sex.
Only if you want to make it about that. Life is simply what you decide to make of it.
why do people need to change all the time
Everything we see or do changes us. If we don't change, we've stopped learning, and without learning, the rest of our life becomes meaningless... it will all be the same stuff over and over again.
and what if someone liked someone better the way they were before and they changed completely
If somebody you're close to changes, then you change too. It may be that the way they change drives the two apart... that's just one of the unfortunate things of life. Eventually, most things we have are lost in some way.
but change in a bad way what do you do.
Who's to say what's bad and what's good? No matter how bad it seems to you, it may be a good change for them. You're not responsible for anybody else's life, nor do you have any right to direct it.
if you know someone is getting away from you and your losing contact with that person then what.
Most people you meet in life will be temporary. Coworkers, classmates, friends, even family... most people are driven apart to some degree by circumstances throughout life, and it's not always easy to maintain a friendship when the context it was formed in is gone.
what if someone you like does not notice you.
That's just part of life. We all see others that we're interested in in some way, but whom we'll never actually know. Remember that there are just as many people looking at you and thinking the same thing.
what you do if when you look back you don't know where your at no more.
Then it's time to find something to work towards. Where you are is defined by where you're going. Experience different things until you find something you want, and then work towards that. It's the only way to regain your sense of self.
you don't know the last time you had a good time with your family and friends with no fights.
Then it's time to move away from those friends and even that family. Explore, find yourself, and then come back. You never have to spend your life on people who make you unhappy.
I mean when I look back at my life I only remember me buying stuffs
You should look for experiences. Things are good while you have them, but they pass. Memories of people, places, deeds... those are what will last.
how do you know who your real friends are.
You just... know. It's the absence of doubt as much as anything else.