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Thank you for all your help, and yes I do believe it will work out better for us, anything is better, thanks again,

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Thank you and for all the help,

Well hallo , my up date is, he will never want to take any responsibility or feel any wronge in our breakup; we were , dating. For a while and it was only when I made the efert , and he was lovely ,...

OK I not a legal ex , so I am so so sorry I did not give legal advice , but do you not see we as ORDONARLY people who do give there opionion, do NOT knoe the law, so that is were you come in , will...

Sorry,

No I would play him at his own game, but sure didn't he tell you he didn't want to see you ,so why not give him a taste of his own medicen, and I agree with joypulv, he might just,

Thanks jake2008 , I not offended and I can take any corrections you,s give , and being honest is what I do do, good or bad, but thanks ,

talaniman what is PMs and OP , or do I not need to know,

I am so sorry I am not on the side of the law ,if I was the law I would make the courts sit up and do the decent thing , I do appreacate the fact that the law is the law ,but that does not make it...

But I am sorry I was not stating a fact I was saying that if I was her that is what I would do change my locks , and I am NO expert in any thing only in what I would do and is it not for us to give...

He is eather tight with his money , and you would know if he is or not, or running away from marriage, looks like he is scared to commit, a wedding should not cost all that money anyway, if it is...

SORRY , if you put GREEN onto orange and white hair, WHAT YOU GET IS A MESS, if you are a hairdresser, wronge info, greens blues etc etc are only to be added to colours to add or take away unwanted...

What colour did you want to be, ash blonde ,gold blonde, there are so many shades, if it is to white at roots and orange on ends , and you want to be ash blonde , it the orange is more yellow and not...

Putting a dark colour on top of bleached blonde is the worst thing to do as it soaks up the colour strongly and it is impossible to remove without, 1, ruining your hiar badly, 2 ,it will allways...

I agree with stylist101, home bleaching is never good [rearly] when you don't know what you are doing, first, you won't get black to blonde in one go and certainly not on black, dark brown, pre dyed...

Move away, what reason is there to stay , and 2 hours away is not to far, for your husband to see his kidds, and how can you be TOTALLY alone, 2 hours away is not far, can you drive, seems to me you...

No no no no no no no no are you mad,

Well your answer that you would put a good beatingn into her says it all are you a bully do you hit her what is your problem , why did she have this emotienel affear, are you the prob take a good...

Patience is something I will have to learn m SLOWLY. THANKS,

Update.. we went swimming today with kidds , he was up this morning , so full of life, he is coming back SLOWLY , me and kidds of to family for a night, he is slowly, slowly, coming back, though he...

Thanks to you.s,

Thank you doulalc, he is still not seeing how he was wronge ,but he is opening up bit by bit, and I hope I don't sound like I am giving in, but I can see more of how he is protecting himself, I was...

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Hi there I wrote before about my separation, we are now apart 6 months we are going to counceling ,and we are a wee bit better , I have got so much out of it, he still is so so so...

HE IS M,A,R,R,I,E,D, get it, married , my god have you no idea, get off the computer and if you want a man that much ,get a single, yes SINGLE man, no matter what he tells you , you should get a...

Why want to be with someone who will do that to you , I can understand you cutting up his cloths and cursing fighting etc ,but why be angry he didn't run into your arms why want a man that could do...

Why do you need him to get you something to eat, do you get him something to eat all the time , and are you not old anough to feed yourself, grow up,

Sorry don't no what the error means.. I don't over look anything small he just hasint done much only say he is not going to change and the thing he has done I apprecate, and it works both ways...

Thank u, yes I have said it will only work if two puts the effort in, but n.o he says its up to me , then I think he can't want it anough,I am still at counclin.and will continu, and there is no...

Thank you I do all you say I have good family and friends I work I don't go out at night , because I do have 4 kids who we both love so much, but I do think anough is coming very closs as its to...

TALANIMAN, thank you for your bluntness, but first let me tell you NO I did not and did not have any intention of having sex, second , NO I was not tipsy,drunk or even merry , he was tipsy because...

Thank you compromising he won't do, I have asked him to meet me half way ,NO, HE Won't, I know he said sorry for xmas , but he has done very little else. I not looking for grand just what I said, to...

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No we havint, I have talked and he says there is no changing him its me who has to change , that is what's killing us he won't admit tohimself he was wronge, I have tried...

We are as far back now again, we went for a walk the last night , it was lovely nothing just arm in arm we talked, he still says he is not going to change, but he apologised for christmas and said he...

Hi there a update on us I ended it after xmas as I felt he was not trying at all, we went to councling ,and I just told felt he was waisting his time as he still insists he will not need to change as...

I have had bad luck this last 2 years, i am not a bad person, i try to help anybody i can i give as much as posable, is it because we try to hard to be good people that sometimes worse people wish...

Will you stop picking on me I just answering your questions , that YOU asked me to answer, I probely was cheeky in the last reply, I am a bit off men ,ha ha sorry again, and I don't have a drink...

But why leave now after putting up with allthat she did, maybe when you thought she didn't care anough or you thought she didn't love you anough it was more exciting, think hard about what you are...

Sorry had a bottle of wine in me, thanks

Tell her how you feel tell her to be honest and tell her you love her... and if it won't tell her what she needs to know tewll her GOODBYE

Tell him to f... of if he loved you it should not matter were yous are if he loved you it would no be a option . Tell him to go . If he loves you he will go . BUT come back.. have you no intuation ....

No its not OK , why should he want to talk to other wiman , is your relashinship not strong anough , he, I think is keeping his options open.. sorry but , no way..

No its about giving and taking and fairness, and gettting and giving respect as its deserved, not lying down and taking rubbish, give it all and exspect all.

3 months why marry after 3 months its hard after 4 years get a grip tell him its you or nothing.

I do agree and if you say nothing she will do it again and again, so yes tell her to stop

So its OK with you if someone in your wife's ors husbands family tries to make you look stupit.. why do you think any body has that right, I don't do it to anybody so why should antbody do it to me...

Get hurt then you will know , its not about hurting people its about not letting them hurt or put you down ,

I have a sister in law like that she knows it all and knows nothing at the same time but her brother as mine don't like to hurt her , what you should do is turn the table , tell her when ever you are...

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