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    me_is_me Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 9, 2009, 10:57 PM
    OK, first off, my friend is an overreacting person.
    He worry's about little things, and always has a negative thought about everything. She just got back together with this guy, and already she wants to break up with him, just because he hasn't called her for a day. She always believes the bad things over the real actual truth, or its just the fact that she doesn't know how to let go of the past. She judges people based on the first impression. Or the first mistake they make around her. Like my friend got drunk one night, and just because of that my friend hates my other friend. I don't know what to do. Because I like the time we spend together, but she just needs to calm down. What should I tell her without being mean, but I just want her to see the better side of life. I want her to be happy, not angry for a stupid reason all the time. Breaking up over something simple as you didn't call me last night when you said you would. HELP ME so that I can help her. Please!!

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    redhed35 Posts: 4,221, Reputation: 1910
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    Jun 10, 2009, 02:57 AM

    Hey,sometimes its hard to be a good friend when the other person is so negative.. theres not much you can do about her personal life,only she can learn from her past and make new choices on how to treat people and what is a dealbreaker for her..
    Be her friend not her councillor.
    You don't say what age group your both in,if you post her age you'll probably get a more detailed response in how to help.
    Regards.
    redhed35.

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