I am 45 years old and my mother still puts me down and uses me financially. She has my credit card that she uses for gas and her medicines which is about 80 dollars a month and I pay her cable bill and phone bill. When she buys my son a christmas present, she uses my credit card. She has two other children that she loves and I am the most successful of the three and the one which causes her the less trouble. I cannot stop crying because she went into the hospital and no one called me to let me know she was there. She turned her back when I wnet into the hospital room. She almost died from a heart attack and she still cannot show love for me or appreciation for what I do for her. My decision is to stay away from her even if it means her dying. What do you all suggest I should do.