I have this problem... my daughter keeps digging up the past and I am made to feel like I was the world's most horrible Mom. She doesn't like it when I have said "I don't know any mother/daughter who has the relationship like we have" and then she yells back that she doesn't care about others relationships. Mom and Dad decide WHEN and IF the granchildren are allowed to come to our house. YET, I have taken them to buy their school supplies, school clothes, have paid for lunches when Mom and Dad are short funds. Have done many things and this is how I get treated in return. My daughter will refuse to take me to like clinic appointments when I approach her. What can I do? I feel I am between a rock and a hard place.