Facebook Friends
I don't know if what I did was so horrible but I had thought it was the right thing to do at the time. I had said hi to one of my friends on Facebook a few times and they never said hi to me; each time I would say hi to them they would be on for a few seconds at a time and log off so after a little bit I made the choice to remove them from my friends list, and I had thrown away their phone number because I had thought it was real rude of them to not only say hi, but if they couldn't talk to tell me they were busy. Then this past Sunday I get a call from him noticing that I had removed him and I had told him that I thought he had been blowing me off and that he just leaves his computer on and he's away from it a lot and he had said that he wasn't and to call him on my next break, so I did and when I had called him I had to leave a message then he called me back and we had talked like nothing was wrong and he had asked me to call him when I got off work so I did and he told me that he would call me back in a few minutes and he never did, so the next day I had asked him what had happened and he had told me that he had gotten busy at work and wasn't able to get to his phone didn't get out of work until 2:30am so he asked me to call him on my next break so I did and we talked for a little bit the next day like nothing was wrong again and he seems like he gets busy again and says that he'll call me back in a few minutes and never does. So as a way of trying to apologize to him I re add him as a friend and come to find he rejected my friend request and I end up saying to him that's fine that you don't want to be friends but had wished he had told me that when we were talking, rather than acting too busy to talk to me and say you'll call me back when really you won't and his response was I was crazy, and that he doesn't play high school drama. What was I suppose to think? To me when you say hi to someone in person and they don't respond you come to think that maybe they didn't hear you, but when you say hi to someone on facebook/messenger and they don't say hi back that to me just seems downright rude and how was I to think I wasn't being blown off?
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