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    BecaNOtie1 Posts: 6, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 20, 2020, 06:43 PM
    My bff
    Ok so my bff is a escort. I've known her since 6th grade. Ok so my question is she buys stuff for me and I have no say in it...
    I feel bad cause I know what she does and yet I still appreciate everything she gives me. Am I wrong? Should I feel guilty. I don't ask her for anything she just gives me things. Help....
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    Jul 21, 2020, 05:31 AM
    You should never feel guilty when someone does good things for you, but being able to talk to your old friend and maybe understanding your own discomfort may be very helpful. Do you also get her stuff to show you care too?
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    Jul 21, 2020, 06:34 AM
    Do you feel badly because she is giving things to you, or do you feel badly because of her life choices?
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    Aug 10, 2020, 01:51 PM
    I do get her stuff! I have talked to her. She told me knock it off. But I still feel weird....

    Not her life's choices.
    Not because she gives me things.


    Hard to explain...

    Fact- I know all the things she has to do to give me things and idk...
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    Aug 10, 2020, 04:44 PM
    Do you feel she is doing something morally wrong?
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    Aug 10, 2020, 06:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by BecaNOtie1 View Post
    I do get her stuff! I have talked to her. She told me knock it off. But I still feel weird....

    Not her life's choices.
    Not because she gives me things.


    Hard to explain...

    Fact- I know all the things she has to do to give me things and idk...
    She told you to knock it off, so maybe being a friend without guilt or judgement would be the way to go, and respecting her choices would help you be that friend.

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