I am quiet confuse about which category it belongs. But here it is.
From my childhood till my graduation, I did not know where I wanted
To be and I never bother about it. You can say aimless life, may be
Now also it is same. But something is missing now. I did all the
Things coming in my life what my parents, teachers told me to do
Like study than subjects than engineering.
I never planned, everything just happened to me.
During my graduation first time I felt that I wanted to become a
Software engineer. I wanted to cross some specific income decided
By me. I wanted to have a girlfriend whom I thought I was seeing for
Past 4 years.Now It has just been 3 years and I have both.
Now what?
I don't know where I am or did I really wanted the same. Sometimes I
Want to prepare for more challanging career than I am risking my existing
Career which has a good growth, which doesn't excite me anymore. Sometimes
I want to escape from my existing work, which used to excite me a lot.
Sometimes I want to do a lot of work.
I don't know what I should do, what I made for. Am I running from the
Things. Am I looking for new aim. Or what is that is troubling me.
If you get it,Please let me know how to come out of this situation.

Regards,
VR

What excites you?

What gives you a buzz?

By that I mean in a professional sense,or hobbie or any interests you have.

Where is your joy?

Finding that out is a good place to start. Finding what you want to do with your life.

Have you ever wanted to travel? Could you take a working Sabitical?

The world is filled with opportunity,perhaps this is your wake up call to take on something totally different from what your used too,stepping out of your comfort zone?

A completely different direction then what you had planned.

Perhaps seeing a career guidance councillor will help you find a path to the career that does excite you.

Its very hard to get excited about things that you don't seem to have control over. Especially when it seems your just drifting along, but don't forget all the work you had to put in to achieve what you have.

Sure you may have been directed by others, but its you who did the work to achieve it. That being said, success is often its own enemy, since now you are looking around for more. That's natural in many of us I think because, we need a challenge to bring out the best in us, and get those juices flowing again.

So challenge yourself with something new, and different to conquer, like a new skill, or endeavor you have never tried. Or just volunteer, and teach others your skills, and be of service to those that have not, or cannot, achieve as you have.

Many ways to put our time to good use, so just be creative, and look around, and find something good to go for.

Hi All,

God is really crazy.
I did not,could not expect this to happen.
I was really satisfied till last week. It was weekend, I was at home for my brother's marriage preparation. I had to return back to office on Monday. I was really happy excited. I called to my girlfriend after reaching. After 1-2 hour. She called me and told me that she love someone else. And that new guy proposed her one month back. I was shocked and at that moment I thought she is joking.
It took one day to accept that she was telling the truth.
I was not able to handle this shock... I could accept anything-anything even if my job would go off. But this was not what I could expect. I did not take food for continuous 2 days. I was in a closed room for two days. I wept more than I had done in my lifetime. Today it has been 4-5 days, since I talked to her.
I saved a random number in my mobile and sending message daily on that. After 7 years thinking about a girl and getting her and spending three years with her. And one call - my life changed.
Than I remembered this post sent by me related to my full satisfaction.
And I thought that I did not challenged GOD that I can be satisfied at this age. I am completely screwed. It's really tough not to talk her. She was the one more committed to me, She was the one who took promises that I will not leave her ever.
I don't know should I laugh on me. God should not test human like this. I know I will not take any wrong step. But It would be better if I would have an accident and died...

Very touched