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    May 31, 2012, 10:37 AM
    Married from the blues I need him back
    I had a crush with this guy and we loved each other and we agree to settle together, due to circumstance he had to travel to Africa for vacation and due to there tradition and culture he was forced to marry a lady simple because it is the culture to do that when you are opening a new house you need a wife to sleep with this culture is killing us especially we Africans really and yet we call our self christian for heavenly seek am really confused though we are still together but he is planning to bring the so called wife here abroad and he claim we remain friend am real stressed with the issue I can't let him go . Though he claim he still loves me my worry is since he is processing papers for this lady so that they can settle together here abroad .HOW can I convince him he always talk about this lady the so called wife depressed. HELP
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    May 31, 2012, 10:41 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by kisiali12 View Post
    I had a crush with this guy and we loved each other and we agree to settle together, due to circumstance he had to travel to Africa for vacation and due to there tradition and culture he was forced to marry a lady simple because it is the culture to do that when you are opening a new house you need a wife to sleep with this culture is killing us especially we Africans really and yet we call our self christian for heavenly seek am really confused tho we are still together but he is planning to bring the so called wife here abroad and he claim we remain friend am real stressed with the issue i can't let him go . tho he claim he still loves me my worry is since he is processing papers for this lady so that they can settle together here abroad .HOW can i convince him he always talk about this lady the so called wife depressed. HELP
    RUN... don't walk away from this... and him. It's a lose - lose situatuion now.
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