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    shizukamelodi Posts: 76, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 17, 2007, 01:49 PM
    Stop people thinking of me as a bully boyish girl!
    Hi,
    My name is sophie,

    I am 5'8'' and I am 13.

    I've never had a b/f io think that is because I act like a brutal boy most of the time and frankly I am sick of it! For years I have been doing this and I don't know how to stop amd make them think diffrently of me.

    It is getting ot a point where boys are throwing fags at me when I pass and come over to me with a lighter and try to light my hair on fire and threaten me with knives!

    I want a boyfriend but it is just I stand up for everyone and get the blame put on me.

    People think I think I am strong because I am taller than other girls my age but I don't!


    No one listenins to me anymore they just think of me as a stupid mean girl that if you go near to her she will hit you!

    :( :(

    Help me how do I act more girla and be nicer act like the real me!
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    peggyhill Posts: 907, Reputation: 150
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    Nov 17, 2007, 02:17 PM
    If the boys are trying to light your hair on fire or threatening you with knives, you need to tell your parents, teachers, and the police about it. If those kids are being so mean to you at school, no wonder you aren't in a good mood! You need to tell someone that they are threatening you. You shouldn't have to deal with that.

    It's OK to have never had a boyfriend. You are only 13, so you have your whole life ahead of you to find love. Just be you and do what makes you happy. A guy should love you for who you are. Just because you aren't as interested in "girly" things doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with you. If you are worried about being nicer, just treat people the way you would like to be treated and remember to smile. :)
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    NowWhat Posts: 1,634, Reputation: 264
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    Nov 17, 2007, 03:46 PM
    You being tall is not a bad thing. Embrace it. Love who you are and what you see in the mirror.
    One of these days - those kids will catch up and if they don't who cares? You are beautiful. Tell yourself that everyday. You do not need someone else's approval to believe that you are fine just the way you are.

    And like peggy said, if you want to be nicer, SMILE and treat people with respect and kindness (the way you want to be treated)
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