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creatureordie · May 12, 2011, 06:57 PM

I've known this girl for awile and she's gorgeous a very talented musician I don't know just all around great.. that's only a few reasons I just don't know id never thought of us togather before but we went on a school art trip to a music museum in richmond and we were "buddies" and everyone had to go with someone and when we got off on our "journey" throughout the museum we sat down and started to listen to music and we started kissing and we cuddled all the way back(four hour ride) and it was just perfect.. the only problem is I'm only15 and she's 18 please don't tell me she's not going to take me seriously or whatever but all I want to do now is be with her and I don't know how to even begin to tell her how I feel... she's going off to college and I'm stuck here but I just don't know what to do I've got this summer to be with her.. but I don't even know why shed want the **** up skater when she could have so much better... please help

sharper11 · May 12, 2011, 07:17 PM

She is on her way out of high school and on to college. This is the point in her life where she will grow-up, learn & experiment.

My first advice to you is to let her know how you feel and see where that goes. But do not expect too much. My second advice is to not obsess over this girl and realize you are still young. There are going to be plenty of other girls and opportunities to find someone that fits you "style/standards". Try to keep an open mind.

Love isn't always about "who's cool" (in response to the "skater" comment).

From experience, college/highschool relationships rarely work out.

Strickley · May 12, 2011, 07:58 PM

First of all dude you got to step up your confidence game .RULE # 1 - NEVER EVER EVER SHOW WEAKNESS OR ADMIT (EVEN IF IT MAY BE TRUE ) THAT THERE ARE BIGGER AND BETTER MEN OUT THERE FOR HER TO GAIN... Rule # 2 Remember she thinks the same way you do , the same feeling you do. You guys are living in the same culture, so basically, she thinks there are better girls out there for you too, and is probably wondering why you want to be with little ole her... get it?? Don't show lack of confi, just do it! Look man here's another general rule of thumb , BE YOU ! If you don't be you how are you supposed to really find a good match FOR YOU? Also Remember if it don't work this time, flirt with all women! Yes, even if you have zero interest in a particular woman, its good to practice your game, and save good one liners for the ones you actually want to pursue ! Practice makes perfect !