I am 16 and I am not sure whether I shoud be pulling my foreskin back when peeing. I can pull back my foreskin slightly(not sure with the technical names of the penis) and I can see the tip of the head I think, but I cannot pull it back all the way to show the full head. However when I pee I do not spray everywhere as some other people have said and I am not sure if I have phimosis because my foreskin does slightly get pulled back.
I am also scared to have sex because of the fear of my foreskin being forcibly pulled back and ripping otherwise I would have probably lost my virginity. Any help?