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    Apr 21, 2015, 03:56 AM
    Male 65. My sex life is very zero now, because I cannot insert my peni for it's softn
    Male 65. My sex life is very zero now, because I cannot insert my penis for it's softness since an year. So I am very sad as well as my partner. Not taken any treatment. Hope your valuable advice. Also, hope frm the persons who have same experience.
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    Apr 21, 2015, 04:06 AM
    This is something that happens as we get older, you are lucky that you lasted till 65 for it to happen. Does it happen all the time? Or just some of the time?

    Do you take any medication? Many blood pressure medication can effect this greatly, as can high blood pressure. Also issues of prostrate, this is one of the first signs of trouble there (and more frequent urination)

    But you go to your doctor and see what they believe.

    I have had some trouble for last few years, and use medication to help. (although it does not always work)
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    Apr 21, 2015, 04:41 AM
    Thankz. I would like to now your experience boldly for my benefit.
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    Apr 21, 2015, 04:48 AM
    There is certain Chinese massage that can be helpful, (just depending on the cause of the problem, And acupuncture helped me, but not on the long term, and I really did not want to have to see the doctor each week.

    I went to Viagra, which if I take once, is almost too strong at times, penis can last longer than I have the energy. But I can still do good one or two days after I take it, which is not the normal but it seems to work for me.

    But even if penis can not get hard, you can still get a ejaculation normally though various other methods of stimulation, and of course your partner can get climax without penetration also.
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    Apr 21, 2015, 07:05 AM
    Can you explain such methods of stimulation? In fact I want it. Your help is very thank-able, of course.
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    Apr 21, 2015, 07:30 AM
    Do you have a doctor? Do you take any meds, or have any health issues? Have you talked honestly with your partner/spouse?

    Many of us older fellows have issues, and take meds, and erectile dysfunction is nothing to be ashamed of or run from. Often though we can transfer our concerns over this very common issue to our partners, and make matters much worse, instead of talking to them.

    You may be surprised by her ideas about making adjustments for satisfaction, and contentment in the bedroom. So talk to your partner before you demand she experiments to help YOUR issues since she has a BIG stake in a good outcome also.

    Often our own ED issues makes for less intimacy, caring, and foreplay, and that is sometimes worse than the lack of being able to do the deed in the first place. Talk to your partner and take her with you to your doctor when you discuss this with him, and your feedback to the questions I ask would help add clarity, and be greatly appreciated.
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    Apr 21, 2015, 12:36 PM
    Cialis, Viagra, Levitra. Talk to your doctor about them.

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