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    Jun 5, 2008, 02:45 PM
    I'm Too Fast With My Hands and Partner
    Hi, I'm a 16 year old boy, close to being 17, and I think I c*um too soon. While masturbating I last about 15 seconds, and I can barely last a minute in intercourse.

    Could masturbating too much cause this.
    I masturbate at least 2-3 times daily.

    Help please!
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    Jun 5, 2008, 03:15 PM
    Slow down when you masterbate and try to make it last as long as you can. Going to fast all the time kind of trains you, to always finish fast.
    Also you can always use the classic "think about baseball" or "think about Rosie O'Donnel".
    :-) Good luck!
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    Jun 5, 2008, 03:18 PM
    Stop bashing the salami so much what you are doing is EXCESSIVE in the extreme.
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    Jun 5, 2008, 04:52 PM
    Is it bad to masturbate more than twice a day?
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    Jun 5, 2008, 04:59 PM
    No it's good for you-but you need to do it slow. Stop. Slow again and keep going until it lasts a long time before climax
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    Jun 5, 2008, 05:13 PM
    There a disagreement about "too much" since many of us feel that too much can make you want to feel it a certain way, sort of train you to want a certain feeling ( hand) to get hard, and can even cause some troubles down the road actually having sex or staying hard when having real sex.

    Sounds more like a habit doing it two or three times a day.
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    Jun 5, 2008, 08:03 PM
    I guess you can say it's a habit. I'll wake up and do it, after school, and once or twice before I sleep. Can't remember the last time it was any different than this.

    So you guys are saying I continue masturbating this much, but just take my time when I do?
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    Jun 5, 2008, 08:19 PM
    What else do you do when you do it? Think about and feel other things, nipples, finger your anus? Whatever but go slow and train yourself to back off when the urge arises
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    Jun 5, 2008, 09:02 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Xrayman
    What else do you do when you do it? think about and feel other things, nipples, finger your anus? whatever but go slow and train yourself to back off when the urge arises
    Yes, some times I try these things, but it only makes me c*um faster.
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    Jun 5, 2008, 09:24 PM
    Like anything else, practice makes perfect. Try slowing down, when you feel yourself about to , stop, wait a minute until the feeling goes away and then start again. You have to train your body not to climax so quickly, at least that's what I've been told. I'm female, so can't know what you are feeling.

    Good luck.
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    Jun 5, 2008, 09:58 PM
    Okay. Another thing is. After masturbating the first time, shouldn't the next time take longer, and so on? This doesn't occur for me.
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    Jun 5, 2008, 10:03 PM
    It depends, how soon are you masterbating again, is a minutes after or hours after. If it's hours after then it probably won't take longer, within a 1/2 hour, then it might take longer for you to climax.
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    Jun 5, 2008, 10:23 PM
    All right. Also, after masturbating once, shouldn't it take me a while to climax the second time, and so on, etc..

    Cause it's always short, every time, even if its ten minutes apart.
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    Jun 6, 2008, 08:09 AM
    Wow, maybe it's time to see a doctor and voice your concerns to him/her. Usually the second time takes allot longer, especially if it's only ten minutes apart. Actually being able to go a second time after only ten minutes is unusual too, most men need more time to recuperate between sessions.
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    Jun 6, 2008, 10:07 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by torches123
    Alright. Also, after masturbating once, shouldn't it take me a while to climax the second time, and so on, etc..

    Cause it's always short, every time, even if its ten minutes apart.
    Well you are only 16. Linoleum probably gets you off (and I fon't mean that in a bad way). I'm sure things will slow down a lot once you're a bit older. Did you try to slow things down last night? Did that work at all?
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    Jun 6, 2008, 07:44 PM
    Yeah I tried, but it didn't do much at all.
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    Jun 6, 2008, 10:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by torches123
    Yeah I tried, but it didn't do much at all.
    Well anything that's worth anything takes time and effort. Keep working on it and try to delay pleasure for as long as you can, but don't get discouraged if it's only adding a few seconds (adding three seconds to your stated 15 seconds is a 20% increase) at first.
    It's well worth the work and in the meantime I suggest you also work on your tongue muscles as well. A talented tongue can make up for other things.
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    Jun 6, 2008, 10:28 PM
    I have to go with the idea that you're only 16. Sexuality's relatively new to you at that age. I think I remember getting uncontrollably excited for no reason. You gain much better control of your body as you get older. I wouldn't worry too much about it.
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    Jun 6, 2008, 10:31 PM
    All right, thank you very much everyone!
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