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    I just talked to her and told her not to contact...

    I just talked to her and told her not to contact me. I told her she is sending mixed signals and I will not wait around. She said a lot but I don't think its worth posting because this is something...
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    redhed35 I understand what your saying. But...

    redhed35

    I understand what your saying. But the connection is still so strong and we both feel it. Just because we had a few issues, it does not mean they can't be resolved. I just basically want...
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    Also, let's say she does want to get back...

    Also, let's say she does want to get back together. Which approach would work best?

    Hang out with her when she ask for an hour about twice a week. During this time, play it cool, don't tell her I...
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    What do you make of this.

    My Ex came by to grab one thing that she needed for her car (the rest of it is here still packed up, which I packed). She broke up with me last month after 18 months of being in love and being with...
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    Thanks for the advice. I'm not looking to get...

    Thanks for the advice. I'm not looking to get into a sersious relationship. It wouldn't be fair to the other person because I need time to completely heal. I am on a emotional rollercoaster because...
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    Thanks for the posts guys. I understand our...

    Thanks for the posts guys. I understand our problem better now. We were each ochers lives, which is not that healthy. We needed out time apart but we didn't get that. In a sense we both lost our...
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    24 hours after she said we shouldn't talk anymore...

    24 hours after she said we shouldn't talk anymore for a while, she calls me and sends a picture of herself through text. Yet, she has a boyfriend. I can't cut her out of my life completely for two...
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    What should I do?

    My ex girlfriend and I were together for 18 months. We were in love and planning our future. We also lived together. She needed so much attention all the time and I couldn't always give it to her...
  9. Can living together too soon hurt things?

    Long story short. I was working at a job that was very demanding when I was 18. Wasn't looking for a relationship. A girl came along and she liked me. I started to like her. We were together all day...
  10. emopunk7 I read your post a while back and I see...

    emopunk7 I read your post a while back and I see your feeling down today. If you have time, ready my entire ordeal. You will see that in the beginning I never mentioned how much of a liar she was. I...
  11. Here is my first post (7 months ago)......

    Here is my first post (7 months ago)... Girlfriend needs time - i have a few questions.

    Then this post (the one your reading) is within the last week... What should I do about our relationship,...
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    Take "A4Effort's" advice. The below situation...

    Take "A4Effort's" advice. The below situation just played out for me exactly like that; (and if she comes back for a third time, I'm saying Hel& No!

    "I agree with emo. Be very cautious. Take your...
  13. It's amazing when you find all the deception that was blinded by love.

    Threads merged

    Like the title states; It's amazing when you find all the decepticon that was blinded by love.

    I was with a girl for 18 months. She feel in love with me and then I feel in love...
  14. You know, your probably right. The more I think...

    You know, your probably right. The more I think about it, she is a compulsive liar. I don't deserve to be with a liar. She doesn't lie just to me, but everyone. If I can't trust her, I don't need to...
  15. I apologize if I misread your posts. I reread...

    I apologize if I misread your posts. I reread both posts. The first time we broke up was because she felt I didn't give her enough attention. We resolved that. This time is completely different! She...
  16. Last time, we talked about what she needed and...

    Last time, we talked about what she needed and how can I give her more time. I did spend a lot of time with her but she need more. She also said she acted irrational by leaving. Our relationship grew...
  17. I love this girl a lot. Lets say she decides...

    I love this girl a lot.

    Lets say she decides to come back? What do I do? I don't want to be hurt again. I know I may have hurt her which is why we are doing this, but I won't know if she doesn't...
  18. "I should have merged these two threads (and...

    "I should have merged these two threads (and probably will) but for now, rereading your other post will help you."

    That was an old post. I've been through this break thing with her 7 months ago....
  19. Sorry, I forgot to add another question. Do I do...

    Sorry, I forgot to add another question. Do I do the right thing by asking her to stay away for a few days so WE BOTH can clear our heads?
  20. What should I do about our relationship, lost.

    Ok, same question different situation.

    My girlfriend(20) and I (21) have been going out for 1yr and half. The last month she has been acting sad. I kept asking her what's wrong and she said her...
  21. Since I received a lot of great advise, I believe...

    Since I received a lot of great advise, I believe it would be right to update you.

    Yesterday, she told me she want me to move in with her after the lease is out here (few months). I'm very happy...
  22. That is a good answer, thank you. I just love her...

    That is a good answer, thank you. I just love her a lot. I've dated several girls and never felt this way about any of them. It's a little unnerving not knowing. But I'll just have to sit back and...
  23. WOW. Guess what happened? A few hours after I...

    WOW. Guess what happened? A few hours after I posted my question, she showed up. She spent the night and we went to the beach yesterday. She went back to her parents last night.

    Here is what I...
  24. I will, thank you. I realize now that I can push...

    I will, thank you. I realize now that I can push her away and I don't want to do that.
  25. Thank you. I like the optimism. I will do that....

    Thank you. I like the optimism. I will do that. From tonight on, I will not txt her first. I will let her txt first.
  26. Secondly, you asked her if she's going to come...

    Secondly, you asked her if she's going to come back. She said she doesn't know. There is your answer. Let her be until she can tell you for certain what she wants to do.

    I asked when she was...
  27. She has talked about this before and I did make...

    She has talked about this before and I did make changes, but not enough. I thought they were enough, but now I realize it wasn't.

    I already talked to her about and explained exactly what I did and...
  28. Girlfriend needs time - I have a few questions.

    I have been reading the posts here for the last few days, debating if I should post. Here it goes;

    I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months now. She moved in with me and we have been living with...
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