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You see needshelp85, I have walked the road u're walking now. Everything in the relationship was healthy. Before we got together, her parents already not a big time fan. Everything went on well, we...

A long battle, fought, won. Congratulations!

Try to express yourself more to him, lower your defensive shield girl! A man has ego, I suggest you feed his ego, it can be rewarding!

You must be very young, but I can roughly tell he's just playing you. Don't embarrass yourself with this guy..

Lena, go girl! 6years is a lot of pain occupying your heart. Its hard to mess around with emotions, but DO come here and talk all the sh*t out of him and take one step at a time. Ups and downs, we're...

Haven't seen for some time tiger, its hard at this age, because I can't go out dating people because It hurts even to see couple, or felt any romance with anyone. I don't like to carry hatred and the...

I'm back guys, I'm back with the scar in my heart. A tragic makes someone grow, and growing at a fast phase really makes me feel I'm not my age. I'm 20 and its hard for me. It has been some time... I...

Almost 1 year, time passes fast. I have not recovered fullly yet, didn't know it would take so long...

I sympathy you, you were blinded and is blind for the moment. Open your eyes and let your heart heal. It is too weak for it to absorb any damage, this will cost you a very long recovery.

There should be a problem regarding the breakup, a long term one, take some time off and rethink the past, put yourself in his shoe.

Think from a clearer persepective, she has been telling things that are against her actions. She doesn't know what she REALLY wants.

Now you should move on. You're a nice guy, she messed you up as...

My ex tried to be friends with after cheating and dumping me. The fact that is she was confused, and I was stupid. When I was trying to make her my friend, she backed it off with no respect at all....

U can tell him you like him, and know he's not ready for a relationship. Assuming he's healing from a tough breakup, u can show him some care and comfort as a friend and keep things going that way...

Well done there pal.

Its not true, maybe when most of the time a girl get dumped, they have lots of female friends to help them recover in any sort of ways, either good or bad. Male however, isn't that of the case *most

This phase is where your heart is broken, your soul is worn out.

The way to carry on this pain is to bring this pain along for you, and it will be less and less over time. It is hard to picture...

Wish u all the best in finding your new job, it's a turning point in life, hope it work wonders as amicon said!

That's good news, move forward!

Going tough down the road A4, I'm in the same situation as you are. My exes are still in the fairy tale state while I'm moving on with deeper understanding of love, it is painful when u can't see...

If I'd try to understand what your ex is trying to say, I'd be lost in the universe. So just leave her as she wants to be, be it a witch trying to poison u and control u.

Well, lets about the new girl then. I bet you're going to come back here and say you miss your ex's hug and kisses and get confused all over in a short while.

Keep it up emo, technically I wasted 3 years, but its what I learn and what I will be in the future that counts. You've wasted 4 years as a doormat, now just let the other guy be the doormat OK?

Hey brother, we all know that girl is immature and she will not change if you take her back. She's going to take your for granted. How about taking a break and let her change?

Means that he might be losing interest in the relationship. Definitely some time ago. You have to prepare yourself and communicate truthly for both sides. You'll get the bigger picture pretty soon....

Wrong motive emopunk, now you're really trying to show your ex how strong and manly you are after being trashed by her. Its not the way, not showing her and let her discover(never) you are not a guy...

No, while you're wondering what to do with no contact, just try to read the stickies https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/nc-rules-faqs-332732.html
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Yes, right. Go for no contact because you're practically blinded..

Wish you all the best, maybe I can date you too :D If there's a nice girl out there being shy/reserved but deep down in her I know she's so passionate and yet unoticed by the males out there, I'll...

He's being friendly, don't over analyse.. see how it goes then you 2 will talk again eventually.

You're living in your confused fantasy, mixed up with his sweet cheating in disguise.

TRY to rebuild some friendship, there is always someone out there to be your friend, just takes the right...

Nice one, I was avoiding from logic due to culture and tradition on this topic. Thanks. It's a hard topic here though.

Don't masturbate as in it is not a common practise..

Thanks for the reply, couldn't think of the words to describe --" sexual energy" :)

There is something bothering your ex, whether with her ex, or your best friend, or someone else, or the religion. Well, I'd say your girlfriend is very confused. Its not going right, she's like a...

I got you, sexual feelings don't appear, so if a girl don't masturbate, what's that going to happen with all that lust?

Then when she got a new boyfriend, its going to be exploded all over him?

Wao Cat, can you actually do that? Keep yourself busy all the time. I actually is on holidays and pretty much bored myself.

I'm a thinker, I spend most of the time thinking about how to be a...

You're doing good, being reserved is your nature, don't feel bad at all.

I personally like shy girls who can explode with lots of fun when you get to know her well. How about trying to send some...

I'm from Southeast asia, its(not everyone) not as open minded as europe or america or other continents. Some examples, The generation before me mostly have just 1 partner and then they get married....

Its not about me. For males I know the answer, once u pop the balloon the lust is going to be there. Female is different when it comes to lust.

When the moral background and religion is against...

No, what I mean is a particular person. If you are in my culture, where the people are not that open minded. If you become sexually intimated with your boyfriend where your foundation stand is that...

Yes, thank you for your response. I just roughly covered my own post, and I couldn't believe this. My ex killed the old me. It's the new me now,I was so immature. Right now that I have learnt from...

I agree with Liz, I'm asian and the practical tradition is that girls think that the guys "should" chase after them if the "love" them. I'm definitely against this. How can you want someone to prove...

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After so many months, I've been doing fine. Guess my ex has got partner(s). I don't wan to have any comment on this. It stings I have to admit this. Just trying to accept the fact that I'm...

The culture at my place is where people don't kiss in the public. You get the idea. If a female allow herself to get physically intimated, including touchings... etc. Will it be most likely the same...

Aw emopunk, I think u're a hard thinker. I am one, and I learn things the hard way.

Happy New Year AMHD ladies and gentlemen's! Lets rock the new year!

Oh poor girl, right now you can write a list on all the bad craps he gave you. Take some time, then call him for a break up so you can get your head up and focus on your family and let him focus on...

Different level of maturity and social life, I'd say it's a good thing to end it early, before she throws all the unacceptable argues and gossips. Its complicated but just make it simple, get her out...

I'd say its jealousy, and insecurities. Mark this, its HIM, not you. Give him all the reasons to trust you, and tell him about it. If he's possessive, keep apart from Facebook might be a good idea.
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Just a guess, you're wondering whether you're old enough to be treated as a woman. Its pretty simple, look at a person that you definitely address as a woman, and compare yourself to it. It's the...

LOL, didn't expect the body part coming out! Nice one emopunk! Do you really need the small teddy bear and tiger? ;P