Hi, I have a question that I've been wondering about for a long time. I had to see a obgyn since I was 12, due to ovarian cancer being in my family. So I went to see this one doctor, but every time I would see him, he would ignore me when I said that he was hurting me, or that I was over reacting... I learned later when I was 19 or 20 that he was using tools meant for pregnant women on me. Is this normal? Or am I a victim of malpractice or rape. Because I still fear going to see the obgyn, and I'm 26 now.