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Oct 7, 2013, 05:53 PM
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I'm 16 and scared
My stomach has been hurting a lot lately and I'm nasusa a lot and every time I eat something I feel like I'm going to throw it up. Im tired a lot and lazy. Im too scared to tell my mom or ask a teacher or friend for help. So what is wrong and what can I do? Im so scare
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Oct 7, 2013, 05:57 PM
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Why be scared? You need a doctor.
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Wondergirl
Why be scared? You need a doctor.
I want to go to the doctors but I don't have my licence until like in a few weeks. And I don't want my parents to come with me cause I'm afraid
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:11 PM
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What are you afraid of? Could you be pregnant?
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:23 PM
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Originally Posted by J_9
What are you afraid of? Could you be pregnant?
That thought has been in my mind considering I have had sex. My parents don't know that though. I am trying to be reasonable without trying tto focas on just that. But I really want to know what's wrong with me
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted by emi1615
That thought has been in my mind considering i have had sex. My parents dont know that though. I am trying to be reasonable without trying tto focas on just that. But i really want to know whats wrong with me
And if you are indeed pregnant, then what? You might have to mention that to them.
You haven't taken a pregnancy test? Can't the boyfriend help you get one?
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Wondergirl
And if you are indeed pregnant, then what? You might have to mention that to them.
Then I would tell them but I would tell them my own way despite hiw mad or upset they are at me I know they'll support me. And my boyfriend said if I am he would leave me because he says the baby wouldn't be his even though it would be.
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted by emi1615
Then i would tell them but i would tell them my own way despite hiw mad or upset they are at me i know theyll support me. And my boyfriend said if i am he would leave me because he says the baby wouldnt be his even though it would be.
If you are pregnant by him, legally he will be responsible. A DNA test after the birth will confirm his fatherhood and responsibility.
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:30 PM
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How late is your period?
If you are pregnant and your boyfriend leaves you, and you choose to keep the baby, then you get a DNA test when the baby is born, and then take him to court for child support. He may not want to be the father, but he should have thought of that before he had sex with you.
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:31 PM
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My boyfriend has no money. His familyis getting effected by the lockdown
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted by emi1615
Then i would tell them but i would tell them my own way despite hiw mad or upset they are at me i know theyll support me.
Then they will support you now too. Tell your mom you need to see doctor. If you are truly sick with something. That needs to be dealt with before it gets any worse.
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:33 PM
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Only your doctor can tell you what is wrong. You could just have a stomach flu.
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:34 PM
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Like a month late. But I have a history of late periods so I'm kind of edgy about that. And I told him that he would have to pay child support and he's like I don't have a job... and he doesn't even make a effort to get one
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:34 PM
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Originally Posted by emi1615
My boyfriend has no money. His familyis getting effected by the lockdown
The lockdown will end long before any baby is born.
How long have you been feeling this way?
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:36 PM
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I have no way to get to the doctors. I would need to ask a friend but the only one I know of who can works a lot.
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:36 PM
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Originally Posted by emi1615
Like a month late. But i have a history of late periods so im kind of edgy bout that. And i told him that he would have to pay child support and hes like i dont have a job....and he doesnt even make a effort to get one
If your period is a month late it's definitely time to take a pregnancy test. If you don't want to get one on your own, you could go to planned parenthood, if you're in the States and there's one near you. I'm sure one of your friends has a car, and can get you there, or you can take the bus.
If you do buy one, test using first morning urine, it's most accurate.
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:37 PM
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Ive been feeling this way for awhile. Id probably say early August which was like 3 weeks after I had intercoarse.
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:38 PM
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Originally Posted by emi1615
Ive been feeling this way for awhile. Id probably say early august which was like 3 weeks after i had intercoarse.
Has he had sex with girls before you? He might have given you an STD.
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted by emi1615
Ive been feeling this way for awhile. Id probably say early august which was like 3 weeks after i had intercoarse.
Here's the bottom line. We can ask you all sorts of questions, but there's no way we can tell you what's wrong. No one, not even a doctor, can diagnose online. It's impossible to do.
So you're going to have to help yourself. That means you either get to the doctor on your own, or you tell your parents. I would try a pregnancy test before that, but that's up to you. There's really absolutely nothing we can do for you other than give you the advice we've already given you, and wish you good luck.
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Oct 7, 2013, 06:40 PM
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Ok. This really helps me. Im just scared.
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