I was in relationship with a girl before my marriage. She dumped me due to my rudeness but returned to me when she knows I am getting married. I allowed her to come in my life. We ended having our first sex. I got married but we still remained in touch and continue our relationship. We both felt that we are made for each other sort of. We share our sorrows, emotions, and still continue physically. But now she is getting married and asks me to be her friend. But the real problem is that whenever she is in need she still calls me, what should I do. What does this relationship means love, lust, dependence.

I have told to my wife about this relationship, she wants me to be loyal to her now. I am in confusion what to do.