It's OK to get married when you both know that you share the same PRACTICAL wishes and opinions about getting through daily life. That includes when to save, when to spend (ALL studies put money at the top of the list of problems). When to start having kids and how many, and how much money and time you will sacrifice for them. Where to live, and what careers, and who will work and who won't. I've even heard of couples who forgot to work out arrangements for the smoker when the other one assumed he/she would smoke outside! What a way to start.
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