A female 'friend' of yours wants your husband and is jealous of the relationship you have with him?

We all worked together, but I left because I had a baby... but they still work together, and my husband was recently promoted to supervisor. Its blatantly obvious she likes him.. or at least likes the attention from him. She's one of those people who manipulates others and who thrives off attention. Her relationship is horrible and she has 3 kids and is 23... last night we were all out and she kept saying how he hates her and why is he so distant now... and he only says hi or bye to her... and blah blah...

Why does she care and why is she asking me?he's not MEAN to her.. he's just not flirty because he wants nothing to do with her... and she can't handle it. Anyway, so when she thought I wasn't paying attention last night, she went up to him and put her arm around him and I couldn't hear what she was saying, but my husband kept telling her to get away from him and get her arm off him. He then told me she was coming on to him sexually...

Basically he wants nothing to do with her. We are a new couple, happy, and have started an amazing family.. he's an amazing guy and she just doesn't stop. She texted me today, 'find out why he hates me yet?'

What do I say to someone like this? Why won't she just stop trying? She's an attractive girl,but I'm not worried because I know how he feels... he's made it obvious to her too but she just won't give up.

What do you say? You don't say anything, your husband does. Your husband should say that he is a married man in a happy relationship and that if she is not careful her actions could be construed as sexual harassment on the job resulting in possible termination.

As a supervisor, and her co-worker, this is his problem to deal with, you should stay out of it as it could cause conflict between you and your husband.

Next time she emails you, tell her to leave him alone, and then back off, and let your husband handle himself.