My husband and I have been married almost two years. We have been through so much we have 2 kids one is outs and one is mine by another guy before my husband. When we fight we blow up. I try to tell him how I feel and he shuts down. He will go to bed and wake up as if nothing happened! He assumes sex or sleepsles everything OK. While I still hurt... what do I do?

Suggest couple counseling, so you guys can learn to communicate.