I have been with my husband 8 years and been married for 1 year and his mother is just a pain and butt she has stole from money jewlery and clothes and husband says that its okay and like I told him its not okay just because that is your mother doesn't make it okay she has called me so many bad names in front of my 5 year old and I'm to point now where I don't want to be with my husband because of her. I tell my husband to defend me and he won't and this has been going on for years and I'm sick of it what should I do