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    yah-hah Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 23, 2007, 11:53 AM
    Is he cheating?
    My husband is always gone on business trips. It seems like every time I call him he is always too busy to answer my calls. He always smells like a woman's perfume when he finally gets home. What should I do? Please help me
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    Apr 23, 2007, 12:08 PM
    I was married to this guy!!
    OK, really... I was married to a guy that did the same thing. I chose to confront him. Unfortunately, you'll probalby get the answers I got.. "Oh, I am just busy when I'm away on business", "the purfume must be from the lady next to me on the plain". I waited to long and believed to many stories... I ended up finding "buisness" trips charged to our personal credit card and alway's conviently to the same place. I finally got the story from his sister that he cheated on his first wife, why was I different. Then a huge light went on. Cause I never got told before that, that he cheated on his first wife. I got told they were just young and it didn't work out.
    So any how, his 3rd wife called me and started asking questions about these "business" trips. I didn't want to get in the middle, cause I knew being the previous wife that she wouldn't believe me any way. So I told her, what I can tell you. Confront him, then if he doesn't confess to anything, at least he knows you are on to him. Then if you want to push it farther for piece of mind... check receipts, emails, phone messages... If there is nothing, maybe he is a honest guy... but if there is something up... It will turn up!! They can't keep it a secret forever!
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    Apr 23, 2007, 01:19 PM
    LOL that is so funny. Good observation Ruby Pitbull. Shame on you Yah-ha.
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    Apr 23, 2007, 01:24 PM
    Hahahahah!! I probably wouldn't have responded if I saw the other post... Guess school was out, or something!! =0)
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    Apr 23, 2007, 08:44 PM
    Maybe he is across dresser ? Or he just likes wearing women's perfume. You should ask him if he is seeing an alien on the side.
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    Apr 24, 2007, 01:18 PM
    Haha I just read the other post.. Rudy... forget about school being out. This appears to be the work of a drop out. Maybe the aliens that took him need realationship advice and they programed him to ask questions.:) Maybe ET is having marital issues.:p Maybe yaH-ha is ET. If so great movie dude!
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    Apr 24, 2007, 11:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by yah-hah
    My husband is always gone on business trips. It seems like everytime I call him he is always too busy to answer my calls. He always smells like a woman's perfume when he finally gets home. what should I do? Please help me

    Have you actually communicated this to him, in a subtle manner? Without accusations.
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