Mistreated Mom
My oldest son refuses to do very little for me. Yet, he has bypassed being a father, which he has not accomplished yet. Instead, he has moved in with an older woman with grown children who is nearly my age. He acts as though he is a grandfather these days. His girl friend has said to him that she does not love him. Now she has moved her uncle in to live with my son and her. It gets worst. One of her grown children (jobless), has moved in with them and brought his girl friend there and their new baby. The girl friend's mother pops in offering her "two cents" regularly although she lives in the State of Mississippi. I just have never heard of such goings on in my life.
I am a widowed, disabled mother with uncontrolled high blood pressure, arthritis and asthma. My two girls have bad asthma. My other son who lives here and has just gotten his master's degree, wants to do little or nothing to help me.
When my husband, their father, was alive, he worked.
Please tell me why my sons act this way? The oldest son's birthdate is July 4, 1970. The other son is August 8, 1978. My birthdate is June 10, 1947.
Thank you for your help.
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