[iwanthelp22]

Assalamalikum,

Dear Brother, My husband is not interested in sex, but I am what do I do? I talked to him so many times about this, he says due to other priorities he's doing like this, since 2 months we did had relationship between us. We are married for 3 years and have a handsome boy alhamdulillah. Please help me.

[RedneckMama]

Is he claiming that he's too tired for sex? Too stressed out for sex? What exactly are his excuses?

Just keep trying to come on to him, try massage oils, try rubbing his body to calm him down and relax him... and then move on to the sex...

There could be various reasons he's not into sex right now... but it usually doesn't last long for most men UNLESS he's a cheater (hope not)... if he's on some new medications that mess with his libido and/or sexual performance he could be hesitant also... or he could just be too stressed/worn out/overworked to think about trying to please his wife...

Be patient and accommodating for as long as you can and if the issue doesn't resolve itself, take that man to the doctor and have him checked out!

Good luck...

[iwanthelp22]

Thanks for the reply. He says he's sick since 1 month and he's not interested because of that. Hes not even hugging or kissing me. At least he could do that. Truly he not a cheater. We have been married for 3 years and we always quarrel on silly things. He says because of that also sometimes he's not interested.