Originally Posted by
mishiree
i have been married for 16 months but i don't trust my husband. i am 8 months pregnant and need to know before its too late for my baby if he is going to cheat and if we will last
Well let me see, you would be surprised at the amount of women that think their husbands are cheating while pregnant, it has a lot to do with the hormone imbalance and the way you also see your body right now.
But of course some men for some stupid reason do leave before the baby is born if they don't want to be a father and they feel trapped.
It can be a combination of all of those feelings.
Why do you feel he is cheating, motel stubs in his pocket, he is calling you the wrong girls name in bed, does he smell like cheap sex when he gets home?
Or is it he is just distant right now, not being as loving and understanding. Perhaps he is scared about being a father and perhaps this has changed so many of his plans.
Most of the time this changes once the baby is born and he holds it for the first time.
You need to talk and discuss your feelings in a good way if you have a real reason to be unsure.
And I have no idea what you mean by "too late fo the baby" the baby is coming if he is cheating or not and he will be the babies dad no matter anyway.
I would say that a good talk and being honest may help awhole lot and if not professionaling counseling can help also.
But I will add from years of talking with couples, a large number of women in their last months before the baby have similar feelings if they are just feelings not based on any real facts