[unknown624]

My boyfriend looks at porn, and I'm just wondering if this is OK. He says he does it because he feels like it, but I still don't think it's a good idea. What should I tell him?:(

[Homegirl 50]

Well if he does it cause he feels like it, nothing you tell him is going to matter. If it bothers you, then you need to leave him alone, because if he knows something bothers you and he doesn't care, he does not care about you.
I believe porn is addictive and I think when teens are into that, it just messes them up and then he will be wanting you to do things you may not feel comfortable doing just to please him.
I advise you to care more about yourself than you do about him, and leave him to his porn. He is probably addicted and doesn't even know it.

[Fr_Chuck]

Normally it can be addicted and it will sometimes gives the man unrealistic ideas of women

[tairyn123]

Personally I do not like it when men look at porn. It gives them an unrealistic ideas about women and sex, especially young men. Thankfully my boyfriend thinks the same. If you want to make the relationship you are in work, you need to be honest with your boyfreind about you feel. If he loves you and wants to make it work as well, he will respect your wishes. I wouldn't call it "cheating" but I believe he isn't honoring you by looking at other naked women, think about them, getting off to them, etc. Bottom line, he needs to know how you feel. You can't be demanding or tell him what to, just talk to him about and see how he responds. Most importantly, be COMPLETELY honest.

[sGt HarDKorE]

I look at porn once in a while and I do not think it has changed who I am or affected my life. I do not look at it a lot and I am not addicted. I do not think anything is wrong with it unless it affects your daily life and how you act.

I can look and stop looking when I want so maybe it is harder for others but not me.

[teasy]

How old is he, how old are u?
Personally I like porn and I'm 16 (yea I know underage but w/e)
It is stimulating and I like erotic literature because it is creative and allows you to imagine what is going on. Just like any other movie or story, it allow you imagine what you can't always do.

[unknown624]

I'm 16 too

[stonewilder]

Get used to it, men like porn. It's BS to think that everyone who watches porn is going to be addicted or that their expectations are going to be warped from watching it. Most woman who get so worked up about their man watching porn has more to do with their own insecurities.