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vhrjon · Oct 12, 2011, 06:31 PM

Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this and maybe give som advice.

I'm in my late 30's and been in a relationship with my husband for almost 6 yrs and we got married 18 months ago.

I'm a kind of fix things girl so we have been through a lot of problems both evolving finance, relationship, family and life... Big and small, and I have always talk to him and worked things out. Try to meet each other half way and find a solution.

Past 12 months I've been feeling a lot like I don't love him like I did before.

He has been distance and not supportive of me, my friends, my work and my dreams.
I've talked to him, seriously, about those things/feelings/thoughts two times, first last April and then again 4 weeks ago. Things change for maybe a week and then they got same maybe worse.

I'm so exhausted because I feel like I'm doing all the work to make the relationship work. Sometimes I even have the feeling that maybe he want's out but I waiting for me to end it.

To add up we had a big fight 4 weeks ago via phone, both drunk.
We were in separate places and he ended breaking up with me but I knew he was drunk, but even that's not a reason, day after he came crawling asking for forgiveness and that we could fix things and I said yes and we talked about things for a whole day.

I think I'm ready to end it but I was not sure, kind of like a final call to fix things.. Make it or break it.

Any advice?

mirstarlyte · Oct 12, 2011, 11:24 PM

As a divorced lady... lol, I will tell you my advice. You will know, for sure, when you are done. You won't even have to post on here when that day comes. You will just know. Think about it long and hard. Realizing life is short, too short to spend time fixing a car, that will never drive. Buy yourself a new car, and get on with your beautiful life. It will be painful for sure. It was one of the hardest things I did. But also the most rewarding. I hope that this helps. God bless and good luck.