My wife has been sexting the same man for 7 months. I just recently found out. She swears on her life that they only kissed 4 times. I looked at her phone bills and she was averaging 900 texts a month. I saw her phone and these messages were as graphic as they come. Use your imagination, and you still wouldn't believe it. She wants to be with me, and claims she will do anything to undo the damage she has done. I don't know if I can ever believe her again. I love her and want to make this work, but I don't need her to complete my life. We have a 3 year old son. We really do love each other, but I will never be able to look at her the same. I have no respect for her, and know that if this marriage is going to work I have to trust her again. As graphic as humanly possible, sext messages!!