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Thank you all again for your help.

I know I am in no position to diagnose anything, its just when I researched BPD and NPD and the feelings it causes spouses/ partners to have when with someone...

After further researhing I really think she has Borderline Personality Disorder and also shows some signs of Narcassistic Personality Disorder. Everything I have read about them sounds so much ike...

To answer your questions. I have suggested marriage counselling before but her answer to that was again to "be nicer to her" and to "make her happy" and that it would be a waste of money.

As for...

Yes I know writing in to this website can help me with advice, but isn't really going to fix anything.

I think being un-confrontational has really not helped me. I know its not good to compare...

I don't really know what is bothering her, but I had a phase like that in my life at one point, where I would just be unhappy with everything despite nothing really being wrong. I use to create...

I know it sounds like that, and believe me I have my faults (lack attention to detail = not noticing a new hair cut or shirt), can get defensive, not a big fan of controversy/drama/ conflict which...

My wife and I seem to get into some sort of arguement/ fight on average of at lease once every 10 - 14 days and they usually last between 2 - 4 days in length and involve a lot of silence, then...

Its been a straight week of fighting and it all started by my wife an I talking about the future. She seems really confused now, as she is currently a nurse, makes good money and says she like her...

The reason I went to the family event was because my father, sister and nephews were all there, and since I never get to see them it was an opportunity to have everyone in the same room. Its not that...

This is my first posting on this sight. I have been married for just over a year and like most couples, it has been very challenging to say the least. We are currently in a bit of a fight, but its...