It's easy to place blame, it's easy to judge, it's all easier said than done. If u've never experienced this you can't really understand.
I'm walking in the same shoe so I know where it hurts, I'm not trying to justify anything, & I'm definitely not saying it's condonable, but it's easy to just tell her to stop, but I'm sure it goes beyond that & it's not that easy.
So, marie, I'll like to say, prioritise for now & take a step at a time, that's what I'm trying to do right now, I know it isn't going to be easy, so mayGOD help us all.
No one wants to be in situations like this it just happens, but we just try our best to make things work.
Good luck to you, I wish myself the same.

Hey I have almost the same issue here. I'm married and have a kid, but I saw my ex at chrsitmas eve and seeing him just brought back all the feelings for him and he also said he loved and other kind of stuff you know... im just so confused, my hubby is so nice to me he is the best, but I don't know what is wrong with my head I feel so stupid, I have been hanging out with my ex (nothing sexual) just as ffriends,but saying all kinds of insunuations and stuff like that.. im feel like a complete idiot!

I feel you and uderstand completely, I'm sure what we're feeling isn't right, but how do one really get rid of all these? I have one question though, do guys get these kind of feelings as well?

The OP hasn't been here in almost 3 years!

OMG I have some bad news I just made out with my ex boyfriend :( I feel like but now I want more... what should I do please HELP!

I feel for the original poster. There is such as thing as true love and soul mates but sometimes soul mates bring out the worst in each other instead of the best and that is when the problems start, esp. when you are exactly alike. My ex and I were true soul mates. We could talk to each other without opening our mouths. I could think "Call me" and the phone would ring and he would say "what do you want?" He was the male version of me and I the female version of him. When something hurt on on side of him, it hurt me on the opposite. This is all true, though many people don't believe it. We had the fairy tale wedding. He rode up on a white horse in armour and proposed. All my dreams came true but I was too young and stupid to realize that I had a once in a life time thing, so we ended, mostly because we were both trying to see who could be the biggest . That was almost 20 years ago. I am now married to someone else and my ex is all the way across the country where he has been all these years. Have my feelings for him changed? No. Will we always be soul mates? Yes. Do I regret the way we treated our special love? Yes. If a person has that other person, their soul mate, their feelings can never change. That love will be there until death. That's just a fact. No changing it. So if the original poster's ex is her soul mate and they are close to each other, then I don't think it could be stopped. Just my opinion.

I randomly ran into this topic and read your story.. tough situation!
it's been sometime since you posted this and I'm absolutely dying to find out how it went...
what's the story today?