I am Catholic and my boyfriend is Hindu. When it comes to the Catholic church there are a lot of rules about marriage. A rule says that you can marry someone outside your religion if they sign a paper agreeing to raising the kids catholic. Is there a way around this rule? Is there a way to marry through a christian church and it be the same thing? What I want is to marry in a church in front of the eyes of God while raising my kids with both religions and let them pick once they are older. What can I do?