Been married for 17 years - everything changed after we married. He won't look me in the eye even though I have specifically asked why? - His answer always is I do! - but he doesn't and seems to show me - I don't know why ( I think on purpose) he does the total opposite with everyone else - sometimes staring to make sure I notice he is looking at the person. I just don't understand and it is very frustrating. Any Idea?