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    Mar 3, 2011, 07:28 AM
    My husband hasn't spoken to me since past one year now suddendly he wants me back
    Hi thr !
    It has been two years since my marriage and we have lived together only for 8 months... We fought on every small big issues and things were not normal with us... on top of this, after 5 months of marriage I discovered that my husband had OCD and they never told us about this when the marriage was fixed. First my inlaws abstained me to share this news with my parents.. but after one fight with my husband I was so shattered that I told my parents everything... when my parents questioned his parents they sent me a divorce notice. We did not take any legal action against them because I am not yet out of love with him.. my husband refused to speak to me, he doesn't take my calls, he didn't show up at all during one year. When my lawyer called them for a meeting to settle the matter and we had to file the petition for divorce my husband has expressed a desire that he doesn't want divorce and says that he wants me back - I am in a dilema - On one hand its him who sent the notice for divorce and we were completely out of touch for one year.I had prepared myself for divorce and now he comes and claims that I am still on his mind and he won't let me go. My In-Laws are not cooperating with us and not ready to support for his medical condition(OCD). My parents won't let me go with him for all he has done in the past... I am afraid if I take lead and go back will he and his family treat me as before? And in the long run if I conceive whether we will have normal children? My lawyer says these are their trick to escape out of the Alimony etc whom do I listen to ? - Please guide me? Thanks a ton !
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    Mar 3, 2011, 07:56 AM

    Where are you? The "fixed" marriage leads me to believe you are not in the US.

    The answer varies by your location.

    I doubt you are entitled to spousal support/alimony after an 8 month living together marriage but - again - it depends on where you are.

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