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    Nov 13, 2010, 12:55 PM
    My husband had an affiare I tried to kill myself and the doctor told him to leave me
    He had a affire and I tried to kill myself and ended up taking over 700 pills and cutting my wrist 17 times The Doctor told my husband to leave me and so he moved in with the other woman .He comes every day and calls me daily he says he loves me and tells me that I am the best sex he had ever had .He puts his whole check in the bank for me and we are going to Marriage conceling .I love him and have forgiven him do we have a chance .He says he loves the other woman too but what do I do !
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    Nov 13, 2010, 01:28 PM

    Sorry, nope, a doctor would not tell husband to leave you, if husband is telling you that he is lying.

    So if he loves you so much, tell him to leave the other women, or not to ever step foot in your home again.
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    Nov 13, 2010, 01:39 PM
    Don't kill yourself over someone that hurt you. There are people out there that do care about you like your family and stuff I'm sure so don't hurt them by doing that. Life goes on.. people hurt people all the time. I'm not saying its right because its not! I'm saying that You need to find some one that will treat you right! If he really loved you he would've moved out to his guy friends or a guys house not a chicks house! Hes playing you. You need to just stop it. Tell him to not talk to you cause its going to hurt you. Get a divorce and move on. Do what's right for you and best thing is look out for yourslelf and do the right thng for you. This is only advice. I'm not a theripist. Bring up in therapy that he's living with another woman. And if he really wants you back he should' ve never moved in with her.
    From my experience he's trying to get back to you but on the other hand he's sleeping with her. And he's telling you that he loves you both! Don't stand for that! You're his wife you two made vowels to one another! He should love you and you only! Just think about it. I can only give you advice, its up to you what you do with it. Remember Talk To Your Marige Counselor about it also. :) Good luck, And remember Don't Hurt Yourself Again.:)
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    Jan 22, 2011, 10:02 PM
    I have been through suicide twice now with my husband. He also told me we would go through counseling while he was with another girl.we got back together and he never went. He told me I was his everything and he we wasn't a whole person without me. Well we are now divorced and I still contemplate suicide because of my pain . I also choose to forgive him but you can forgive but never forget. Its up to you but in my experience I have learned that if someone truly loves you they love you no matter how bad the situation is. He choose to leave me because he expected me to trust him again right away and put the blame on me because I questioned things. So now I sit alone with no friends and no one to talk to because he is a celebrity in my town and everyone chose to be friends with him. So just be careful in where you go with it.

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