Point blank my husband does not know how to be a romantic or pamper, wine and dine me, but I craaaave this! I feel I am a beautiful woman and know my husband agrees, but just doesn't understand the importance of the little extras like a foot rub or back rub for no reason, making sweet love instead of just sex, smiling at me for no reason instead of "why are you looking at me like that?". I know he doesn't mean to neglect me and I believe he is attracted to me and cares for me, but how can I explain or teach him what I want from him? He just doesn't get it!