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    How to convince parents for intercaste love marriage?

    Asked Feb 8, 2012, 06:28 AM 6 Answers
    Please help me friends, I'm in trouble these days. I'm a jaat girl and I love a gurjar boy and he also loves me a lot. But my boyfriend's parents forced him to marry their caste girl but he don't want to marry any other girl accept me. I have only 2 months to have talk with my parents about my marriage with my boy friend. We have long term relationship of 4 years.Please give me suggestion how I convince my parents? I'm going to die if I can't get this guy.

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    Feb 10, 2012, 09:18 PM
    Hello first ask that boy to come to your house and convience Your parents.Then Your parents could convience boy parents.This is best way I feel.If it reverses You should be prepared to marry himw without support of parents.Before that start thinkimg of career and settle in life.Al the best
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    May 25, 2012, 01:55 PM
    Please help me anyone, I'm a Patel in Open cast and my girlfriend is Parmar in OBC cast, and we have long relationship around 10years and I can't leave without her, but my parents strickly warning that, we can't accept this girl due to her cast and her parents also can't accept me due to same reason different cast.
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    Jun 4, 2012, 09:59 PM
    Hi my name is Girish, I am 31 years (employee) & my girlfriend is 25 years old (employee). We both are in relationship for the last 13 years & want to get married now. But I am being lower caste (Hindu) & she being upper caste (Hindu), their parents are objecting & not allowing us to get married. When I spoke to them regarding our marriage. They said it will be inter-caste marriage & we do not allow it .If we get married, they say that, at their village people won't respect them, do not care them & they will degrade them. My family has accepted our relation. Even she wants to marry me but if & only if their parents agrees & give permission. She loves her parents & me a lot & do not want to hurt them by getting married to me without their permission. She is forcing me to speak to her parents again & convince them. I know they won't agree. Please help me how to convey & convince their parents. Proposals for their daughter. Please help me!

    Now she has stopped talking to me & avoiding me. I know she loves me a lot but she is scarificing me for her parents,
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    Jun 29, 2012, 12:38 PM
    In case your parents don't agree, you have an option of finding a gay jaat boy and marrying him.. den even after marriage you can continue your relation with da gurjar boy... ur gay jat husband will be thankful to you because you will keep his secret.. all three of you can be friends.. its complicated but a great solution... I am a gurjar gay guy who feels like a girl.. I love to dress up like a girl.. so if you know a gurjar girl who is in your situation let me know about her... thanks..
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    Aug 21, 2012, 08:58 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Girishtara View Post
    Hi my name is Girish, I am 31 years (employee) & my girlfriend is 25 years old (employee). We both are in relationship for the last 13 years & want to get married now. But I am being lower caste (Hindu) & she being upper caste (Hindu), their parents are objecting & not allowing us to get married. When I spoke to them regarding our marriage. They said it will be inter-caste marriage & we do not allow it .If we get married, they say that, at their village people won't respect them, do not care them & they will degrade them. My family has accepted our relation. Even she wants to marry me but if & only if their parents agrees & give permission. She loves her parents & me a lot & do not want to hurt them by getting married to me without their permission. She is forcing me to speak to her parents again & convince them. I know they won't agree. Please help me how to convey & convince their parents. proposals for their daughter. Please help me!

    Now she has stopped talking to me & avoiding me. I know she loves me a lot but she is scarificing me for her parents,
    Only one solution: get another girl. This girl has no guts.
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    Oct 24, 2012, 01:26 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by gaygurjar View Post
    in case ur parents dont agree, u have an option of finding a gay jaat boy and marrying him..den even after marriage you can continue ur relation wid da gurjar boy...ur gay jat husband will be thankful to you because u will keep his secret..all three of u can be frnds..its complicated but a great solution...I am a gurjar gay guy who feels like a girl ..i love to dress up like a girl..so if u know a gurjar girl who is in ur situation let me know about her...thanks..
    It is your methodology don't force anyone to adapt your ideas, Your suggestion will be the worst for such a scenario. If you think being a gay is not wrong than why to keep it as a secret. Be free to say the world that you are gay and marry a gay guy instead of spoiling the girls life who will get married to you. GET A LIFE... STOP BEING A LOSER...
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